We’ve all been there—asking our child, “How was school today?” only to hear the familiar one-word response: “Fine.” While this answer might be true, it doesn’t leave much room for real conversation. Children are often more willing to share about their school day when they’re asked specific, engaging questions.
Here are some conversation starters families can use to spark meaningful discussions and learn more about school life and learning:
General School Life
What was the best part of your day?
Who did you sit with at lunch or play with at recess?
Did anything funny happen at school today?
Was there a part of your day that felt tricky?
If you could switch places with your teacher for a day, what would you do?
Learning and Content
What’s something new you learned today?
What book did your class read? What did you think about it?
Did you work on math today? What kind of problems did you solve?
Can you teach me something you practiced in class?
What was your favorite subject today? Why?
Building Habits and Friendships
Did you help someone today? Did someone help you?
What’s one kind thing you noticed a classmate do?
Is there anything you’d like to practice more at home?
Did you learn or try something that made you proud?
Looking Ahead
What are you excited about for tomorrow?
Is there something you’re hoping to learn or do this week?
By asking open-ended questions, families can encourage students to share their thoughts, celebrate their successes, and reflect on challenges. These conversations help children know that what happens at school matters—and that their families are excited to hear all about it!
Questions about attendance? Please contact our Dean of Students and Attendance Coordinator, Ms. Aileen Lind at alind@glnd.k12.va.us.